Obey vs. Serve

obey: to follow the commands; to conform to or comply with.
serve: to be favorable, opportune, or convenient; to be worthy of reliance or trust.

I recently read a comment where the speaker said that while others obey, he serves. It made me pause to consider what the difference might be. After considerable thought, I believe I have found a subtle difference.

The difference between obedience and service is all in the attitude. Although both may accomplish the same external action, they don't necessarily produce the same internal result.

Obedience can be demanded and given with no feelings or even with hate. Obedience is simply compliance with a command. When the command has been obeyed, it doesn't necessarily mean I feel satisfaction.

Service, however, is given with a different internal mindset. Service is what I give with the hope of pleasing the one I serve. Service doesn't require that I like or enjoy what I am doing. It does, however, produce satisfaction in knowing that I have been pleasing while performing that service. That satisfaction is why there is joy in serving.

I am expected to obey, but I am allowed to serve.